Sunday, April 27, 2014

Letters to a Young Contrarian Ch. 14-ENVOI

For this last post on the book I will be more positive about the author as he does raise very good points. Some of my favorite quotes in the last chapter are as follows:

"No self-description or definition can be relied upon."
"Suspect your own motives and all excuses." 
"Picture all experts as if they were mammals."

These all resinate with me and apply to my life. These are things that I either need to work on or that I find importance in. The main point that I would like to talk about is the quote;

"Do not live for others any more than you would expect others to live for you."

This is something that as soon as I read it, I read it again... and again. You always hear "treat others how you want to be treated," but I have never thought to live for others the way I would EXPECT them to live for me. There is a difference between the way you would like to be treated and the way that you expect to be treated. I find myself giving too much of my life to others and I end up disappointed because they didn't give the same in return. This quote led me to realize that I cannot expect others to treat me the way I want to be treated, and that I shouldn't live for someone who wouldn't live for me. 

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